You're stunningly preppy already, I know. But do you have enough in the way of monograms in your life? What do I mean you ask? Well dear, I simply mean what I say. Having your initials (or family name) emblazoned on various haberdashery is a must if one is to be a socialite. You can do it on big fluffy white bath towels, embroidered onto pillows, napkins, engraved into your cutlery set that your great aunt left you in her will, even as a decal on your wall in the foyer.
Yes, make it your symbol and feel linked to the old world. It's surprisingly cheap these days. But certainly don't tell grandma that you're just getting a computer to whiz the monogram onto your sheets. It's by hand darling, all by hand.